“That callowness is often oversold by too many aging Lotharios wanting to emphasize the difference between their own supposed expertise and young men’s clumsiness.” Mmm-hmm. According to Schwyzer, many young women end up with older men who are “deeply unsafe.” For his part, Schwyzer urges older men to mentor younger men instead of taking advantage of the younger women those young men should be dating.Some famous women marry wealthy older men for security, while others marry for true love.One famous lady even married a man 63 years her senior. Cruise was previously married to Mimi Rogers from 1987–1990 and Nicole Kidman from 1990-2001.It’s about the mistaken assumption that younger women will be more malleable.” In fact, young women in their early and mid-20s are quite malleable, something a woman that age might deny, but ask that same woman in her 30s to look back at her younger self and it’s likely she’d concede the point.So why are young women so willing to date older men?Who is the most famous woman who married an older man? The “Dawson's Creek” actress married Tom Cruise, after dating for about a year, on November 18, 2006, when she was 27 and he was 43. More recently, Holmes has been rumored to be dating “Ray” actor Jamie Foxx. Howard Marshall II on June 27, 1994, when she was 26 and he was 89. Smith was previously married to Billy Smith from 1985–1993. Stern in 2006 and they were together until her death a year later. Cruise was previously married to Mimi Rogers from 1987–1990 and Nicole Kidman from 1990-2001.