When it’s all said and done, talk to her for another few minutes.It shows you weren’t just in it for the phone sex and that things won’t be awkward between you.” Again, if she challenges you, hold your ground, “I want to have some fun with you.” Or “I want to tell you how to use them.” If she answers that question at all, you are in. Now guide her throughout the incredible experience. For example if she said, “I’m resting my hand on my leg.” You can reply, “I want you to take your fingertips and run them gently up and down your thighs.” Every time she accepts your suggestion, continue escalating… Eventually, you’re going to get to a point where she’s going on her own.Tell her to run her hands up towards the inside of her thigh. She’s breathing deep, moaning hard, and now it’s time to…You must transition naturally while subtly implying where things are headed. The two that have always worked for me are: “What are you wearing? “I’m trying to imagine what you look like right now.”, “Haha, you’ll just have to find out.” That’s usually more than enough to get her to tell you or say “okay”.Then roll back into, “So describe it to me.” Once she answers those initial questions, follow up with the question that kickstarts the session: “Where are your hands right now? Then to rub her fingers gently over her clit and so on.I’ve taught you how to have phone sex with her but how does that lead to real sex with her? She’s openly expressed that she wants to be intimate with you.Well, she’s immersed in the moment and really horny for you. No shame, no ambiguity, just a sexy experience shared between you both.
If you do that, she’ll be excited to keep sharing her sexual side both over the phone and in-person. When you see her next, the dynamic shifts completely — it’s now going to be romantic.
These were women I had NOT been previously intimate with. But they all led to real sex almost immediately after. In the age of sexting, phone sex is like forgotten lore. The last time I’ve actually heard it referenced in the mainstream was during American Pie 2. Remember my 80/20 rule – 80% normal conversation, 20% flirting.
Even then it was shown to be awkward and unsuccessful. I want to prove how phone sex can be an incredibly fun and sensual experience for everyone. I usually speak with women for an hour or more before getting intimate over the phone. That means you want to regularly sprinkle in: These are your litmus tests to gauge her interest. As long as she’s responding well (laughing, flirting/teasing back, is still engaged in conversation) progress to being more bold and sexual.
I already knew how I had to start a conversation with women, but I had absolutely no idea what topics to talk about with a girl who I was on a date with.
I then turned the conversations I had with women into field studies and I tested every possible topic.
When I think back to all the dating failures I only had, because I was unable to find the right topics to talk about, I somehow feel sorry for the girls who had to sit next to me for hours while they pretended to be interested in a conversation that doesn’t even deserve to be called a conversation.