I am not sure why people go through the trouble of signing up and filling all those questionnaires and then post a profile that looks like a copy of any other neutral, boring, profile full of cliches and types.What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It’s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct.I like people who have brains, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some sh-t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you).If what you think and talk about goes deep beneath the surface, it won’t go unnoticed by me.Here is an actual example from a profile: “I disapprove of joining cults and cover bands. It is unfortunate that so many people join dating sites but so few put a fair effort into writing a really good profile that makes them stand out from thousands of other users.They seemed to get on well via email, but whenever it came to meeting up, there was always a problem.
I don’t know why, but my friends and I suspect that most older men don’t come out of a relationship unless there is another woman waiting in the wings.
I think video games are retarded – I want my future kids to be cut up and bruised from climbing trees and riding bikes, not fat-assed in front of the TV being conditioned for army drone piloting. No small penises (seriously), douchey facial hair styles (i.e.
the Berkeley Beard, anal-retentive chinstrap or Flavr Savr), high maintenance egos, military men/law enforcement, and guys who spend more than an hour a day at a gym.” The above writing style is not for everyone, and you might consider it to be too harsh and not reflecting of who you are. I am interested in smart asses and challenging repartee.
Some would consider this profile to be too negative and opinionated, but I strongly believe that “playing it safe” is not the right way to go when it comes to online dating.
You are much better off speaking your mind, as that will significantly increase your chances of finding a reader who will relate and agree with what you say.
So, here is the profile that I simply had to post here.